Tujuan Hidup ini....

Banyak orang hidup hanya sekedar hidup, tanpa memiliki “TUJUAN” yang jelas. Dan disaat seseorang tidak memiliki “TUJUAN” yang jelas, maka dia tidak tahu apakah yang sedang dilakukannya itu akan membuat dia menjadi “BESAR” atau “TIDAK”.

Di setiap sesi training yang saya berikan selalu saja hal hal seperti ini muncul. Saat peserta ditanya, Apakah anda punya TUJUAN , GOAL, IMPIAN..? Sudah dapat ditebak, semua peserta pasti menjawab, “pasti doong…”ya adalah” atau masa siih ga ada tujuan ..

Oke..kalau gitu sekarang ambil selembar kertas, dan tuliskan tujuan/goal/impian anda dalam beberapa menit peserta selalu tercenung mnghadapi kertas yg tetap kosong… Looh..ko bingung? Katanya punya tujuan, punya Goals punya impian?
Itulah yag sering dan selalu terjadi

Bagi orang – orang berhasil, penetapan “TUJUAN HIDUP”adalah “KUNCI” yang akan membuat seseorang menggapai apa yang dikendaki dalam hidup ini. Karena segala sesuatu yang ada di dunia nyata dimulai dari keinginan atau tujuan seseorang .

Apa manfaat dari seseorang memiliki tujuan yang jelas dalam hidupnya..?

1. Semangat kita selalu diperbaharui.

Tanpa tujuan yang jelas, antusiasme akan mudah pudar. Semangat muncul saat kita berjuang untuk suatu tujuan yang jelas dan melihat bagaimana “Sang Khalik” turut bekerja dalam hidup kita.

2. Arah hidup kita menjadi jelas.

Tanpa tujuan, kita kehilangan arah dan tidak akan ke mana-mana. Akhirnya kita merasa puas diri dengan berkata: ‘Saya memang begini adanya’. Itu sebabnya milikilah tujuan hidup yang pasti agar kita tahu mau menjadi seperti apa kita nantinya.

3. Raihlah prestasi di atas rata-rata.

Tanpa tujuan, hidup kita akan biasa-biasa saja. Bekerja dengan fokus dan buatlah hal-hal yang paling baik di dalam hidup Anda.

4. Milikilah sikap yang benar.

Saat kita tidak menyukai pilihan yang kita buat, biasanya kita akan jadi lebih suka mengkritik, menggerutu (hal-hal negatif lainnya). Tetapi bila kita mengikuti rencana “Sang Pencipta”, kita akan lebih memiliki hati yang terbuka dan dapat lebih baik berhubungan dengan orang lain.

5. Hidup terasa lebih berharga.

Jika kita hidup untuk diri sendiri, maka kita akan kecewa. Penetapan tujuan akan membantu kita menggunakan waktu, tenaga, keahlian dan bakat/talenta dengan bijaksana. Hidup adalah anugerah, dan kita perlu menanganinya dengan baik.
Pilihlah tujuan hidup yang jelas dan tetapkanlah “TUJUAN HIDUP” itu sekarang juga.

(sharing dari Wenny)

Noordin Top possibly killed during antiterror raid in Solo

INDONESIA
Central Java: Five dead in a raid on terrorists, perhaps Noordin M. Top
by Mathias Hariyadi

Overnight a special security unit attacked a hideout used by Islamic extremists. Two terrorists involved in the attack hotels in Jakarta killed, weapons and bombs seized. The police will not confirm or deny the death of the Malaysian terrorist top of the list of wanted persons.


Jakarta (AsiaNews) - Five suspected terrorists killed, three others arrested, an "important" arsenal of weapons including guns and bombs sequestered. This is the outcome of a police operation in Indonesia – lasting more than 10 hours – in Mojosongo, a suburb of Surakarta, in Central Java. Four bodies have already been identified. The fifth, decapitated by an explosion, could be Noordin Mohammed Top, the Malaysian extremist who first on list of wanted criminals; the head of the anti-terrorism squad will neither confirm nor deny the report.

Last night the Special Detachment 88 - an elite Indonesian counter-terrorism team - attacked a hideout used by Islamic extremists in Central Java. The security forces engaged in a fire fight that lasted about ten hours. Hundreds of villagers flocked to witness the operation. Surakarta (or, Solo as it is called by the locals) is the hometown of Abu Bakar Baasyir, former leader of the Jemaah Islamiyah (JI) Indonesian terrorist group linked to al Qaeda.

Police have released the names of four of the five extremists who were killed in the raid: they are Urwah, Maruto, Susilo and Putri Munaroh. "A fifth person was decapitated by a second explosion," said a police official, on condition of anonymity. "We suspect this is Noordin Mohammed Top, because he has fair skin and is tall like Noordin”. Interviewed by AFP, Saud Usman Nastion - Head of the Special Detachment 88 - said they do not know if the terrorist from Malaysia is also among the dead.

However the killing of Bagus Budi Pranoto alias Urwah and Maurto has been confirmed, that latter was wanted for involvement in the attack on the two hotels in Jakarta last July, which killed nine people. Among the wounded there is also Munarwaroh Putri, wife of Susilo, who is seven months pregnant, and has been rushed to hospital in Surakarta.

A resident of the village of Mojosongo tells AsiaNews that "Susilo is a kind person, though he never socialized with neighbours." He registered their presence in the village "after three months, at the urgent invitation of local authorities." Suratim, the village leader, adds that they "were working as teachers at an Islamic school and a kindergarten”.

INDONESIA
Jakarta, head of al Qaeda in Southeast Asia is dead
by Mathias Hariyadi

This is confirmed by the head of the Indonesian police. Noordin Mohammad Top, the most wanted terrorist, was killed last night in a raid by security forces in Central Java. He was the mind of several attacks in the country.

Jakarta (AsiaNews) - Noordin Mohammad Top is dead. This was confirmed by the Indonesian police chief, General Bambang Hendarso Danuri, who confirms that "the battered corpse belongs to the famous Malaysian terrorist", killed - along with three other extremists - in the raid last night by security forces.

The police chief explained that the "announcement" was "official", following 100 percent match between finger prints data and those of the corpse – taken in a military hospital in East Jakarta - with those present in the archives. General Danuri confirms that "Noordin was the leader of al Qaeda in Southeast Asia" and also "the other three terrorists killed," belonged to the fringe of the local network of Osama Bin Laden.

Among other key figures in Islamic fundamentalism in Indonesia - against which Jakarta has launched a tough fight - are Ibrohim aka Boim, killed during an operation of the police in Temanggung, in central Java, last August and Syaifuddin Zuhri, still fugitive.

"We must not underestimate the role of Boim - said the police chief - who people called 'the florist' of the Ritz-Carlton Hotel. He is more than that. He is a key figure for the network of al Qaeda in Southeast Asia”. General Danuri finally confirms "the request of President Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono" who urged "the police" to "provide citizens with all possible information" about these "thugs" so they may "know".

Dead corpses under the rumble in Padang after the disaster

INDONESIA
Thousands buried under rubble after earthquake in West Sumatra
by Mathias Hariyadi

The severe toll is confirmed by the national emergency centre and the governor of West Sumatra. Many feared the onslaught of a tsunami, but the alarm has been recalled. Communications with the area are interrupted. Electricity pylons and generators destroyed.


Jakarta (AsiaNews) - Thousands of people are buried under debris and feared dead or seriously injured after a powerful earthquake that struck the coastal region of Padang in West Sumatra. Rustam Pakaya of the National Relief Centre in the capital has confirmed a possibly massive death toll.

The quake, which occurred in the late afternoon, measured 7.6 on the Richter scale.

The latest news from the capital reports 75 dead and thousands of homes, offices, mosques and other buildings in the district of Pariaman razed to the ground.

The governor of West Sumatra, Gamawan Fauzi, clearly moved and dazed said: "Thousands of people are buried under the huge pile of rubble of destroyed buildings".

Gawaman Fauzi also said that at first people feared a tsunami, with many fleeing to higher areas, away from the coast, but the quake did not provoke any killer waves.

Vice President Jusuf Kalla in Jakarta has alerted all the ministries. President Susilo received the news late because he was travelling by plane from the U.S. to Indonesia after attending the G20. Susilo is expected tomorrow in the capital and most likely will go to Padang.

Direct communications with the earthquake zone have been interrupted. The international airport of Padang has suspended some flights for safety, although it is unclear whether the runway and airport buildings have been damaged.

Padang also lacks energy supplies: the national electricity company has confirmed that several pylons and power generators have been destroyed.

Devastated Padang after the tremor jolted

INDONESIA
New earthquake. Aid arrives in a devastated Padang
by Mathias Hariyadi

Electricity and kerosene are lacking. The largest buildings in the city have all collapsed. The roads are flooded or destroyed, bridges collapsed. Trucks to dig among the ruins are needed, where thousands of victims are believed buried. The airport is reopened and two Hercules planes arrive with rice, medicines and basic necessities.

Jakarta (AsiaNews) - A strong earthquake of magnitude 7 on the Richter scale was recorded this morning on the island of Sumatra, south of the area hit yesterday by a 7.6 magnitude quake, which probably killed thousands of people.

Padang, the capital of West Sumatra, spent the night in devastation and total darkness, although some fires caused by the collapse of buildings still burned. There is no electricity and stocks of kerosene and water are lacking. The price of fuel has risen to four times the normal rate, up to 10 million rupees per litre. Bridges and several roads have been destroyed and some roads are still flooded.

All of the major buildings in the city have collapsed such as hospitals, banks, supermarkets, shopping centres, the Islamic University and the University of Science and Technology.

The communications system of the airport is down and internet and mobile phones are not working.

Thousands of people are still trapped under the rubble and the means to lift heavy debris is lacking. Seismologist Rahmat Triyono, from government offices, said that the earthquake in Padang is not connected to the Samoa tsunami. "The earthquake in Sumatra - he said - is due to friction between the Eurasian and the Indo-Australian plates".

Civil protection and relief organizations and non-governmental organizations are arriving in Padang, thanks to the reopening of the airport, which has reported only minor damage.

Hercules planes took off from Jakarta to deploy tons of rice, medicines and basic necessities. Medical teams are also due to arrive today; the Indonesian navy is sending some ships to Padang.

The epicentre of yesterday’s strong quake is located about 57 km from Periaman, a district on the outskirts of Padang. The quake was felt even in the province of Jambi, Malaysia and Singapore.

Padang Bishop Mgr Situmorang: Compassion is above all

INDONESIA
Bishop of Padang:
"compassion" among people, stronger than the devastation of the earthquake
Mathias Hariyadi

Bishop Martinus Dogma Situmorang thanks for the aid and calls for the cooperation of civil engineers to assess the practicability of structures. Several Catholic buildings have suffered extensive damage, including the hospital, which continues to operate despite the emergency.


Padang (AsiaNews) - Thanks for the aid to our "brothers and sisters" in the areas affected by the earthquake, but our thoughts are now on the immediate future, on reconstruction in an atmosphere of mutual “compassion”, because in the midst of utter devastation, "I saw something good in society. " So says Martinus Dogma Situmorang, bishop of Padang, the area hit last week by an earthquake of magnitude 7.6 that causing 739 deaths, which the Red Cross estimates to be at least 3 thousand.

In the aftermath of the earthquake, the bishop visited the area and tells of the "total darkness", the "lack of electricity, except some areas where generators are available”. He noted the "strong and great compassion among people," including "the work of volunteers" and support centres "set up in a short time", this has "deeply touched” him because in a scenario of "such devastation I saw something good in society. "

The bishop of Padang confirmed the death of "dozens of Catholics" and the work of frantic doctors and nurses in the Catholic hospital Yos Sudarso in Padang", to help in the emergency by providing their own operating theatres, because the governmental structures of RS M. Jamil and RS Pusat Daerah "were totally paralyzed." To the work of health personnel the efforts of the Indonesian Caritas must be added, which "is doing everything to help the victims", regardless of "ethnicity or religious belief."

Several Catholic buildings in Padang have suffered severe damage including the aforementioned hospital, the cathedral - engineers will evaluate whether to begin restoration or build a completely new church - many schools, the pastoral centre, the monastery, monastery chapel and bishops residence .

"What we need most - concludes Msgr. Martinus Dogma Situmorang - is the availability of construction engineers, to verify the practicability of the buildings. There are many things to do in the future, but let me express my thanks and gratitude for the sympathy and support received. "

Cara benar mengonsumsi buah

Subject: EATING FRUITS, WHY, WHEN and HOW
We all think eating fruits means just buying fruits, cutting it and just popping it into our mouths. It's not so easy as you think.
It's important to know how and when to eat.

What is the correct way of eating fruits?
* IT MEANS NOT EATING FRUITS AFTER YOUR MEALS!
* FRUITS SHOULD BE EATEN ON AN EMPTY STOMACH.

If you eat fruit like that, it will play a major role to detoxify your system, supplying you with a great deal of energy for weight loss and other life activities.

FRUIT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT FOOD.
Let's say you eat two slices of bread and then a slice of fruit. The slice of fruit is ready to go straight through the stomach into the intestines, but it is prevented from doing so.

In the meantime the whole meal rots and ferments and turns to acid. The minute the fruit comes into contact with the food in the stomach and digestive juices, the entire mass of food begins to spoil.

So please eat your fruits on an empty stomach or before
your meals! You have heard people complaining - every time I eat water-melon I burp, when I eat durian my stomach bloats up, when I eat banana I feel like running to the toilet etc - actually all this will not arise if you eat the fruit on an empty stomach. The fruit mixes with the putrefying other food and produces gas and hence you will bloat!

Graying hair, balding, nervous outburst, and dark circles under the eyes all these will not happen if you take fruits on an empty stomach.

There is no such thing as some fruits like orange and lemon are acidic because all fruits become alkaline in our body, according to Dr.. Herbert Shelton who did a research on this matter.

If you have mastered the correct way of eating fruits, you have the Secret of beauty, longevity, health, energy, happiness and normal weight.

When you need to drink fruit juice -
drink only fresh fruit juice, NOT From the cans. Don't even drink
juice that has been heated up. Don't eat Cooked fruits because you don't get the nutrients at all. You only get to taste..

Cooking destroys all the vitamins.

But eating a whole fruit is better, than drinking the juice. If you Should drink the juice, drink it mouthful by mouthful slowly, because you must Let it mix with your saliva before swallowing it.

You can go on a 3-day fruit fast to cleanse your body.

Just eat fruits and drink fruit juice throughout the 3 days and you will Be surprised when your friends tell you how radiant you look!

KIWI: Tiny but mighty.
This is a good source of potassium, magnesium, Vitamin E
& fiber. Its Vitamin C content is twice that of an orange.

APPLE: An apple a day keeps the doctor away?
Although an apple has a low Vitamin C content, it has
antioxidants & flavonoids which enhances the activity of Vitamin C thereby helping to lower the risks of colon cancer, heart attack & stroke.

STRAWBERRY: Protective Fruit.
Strawberries have the highest total antioxidant power among major fruits & protect the body from cancer-causing, blood vessels-clogging free radicals.

ORANGE : Sweetest medicine.
Taking 2 -4 oranges a day may help keep colds away, lower cholesterol, prevent & dissolve kidney stones as well as lessens the risk of colon cancer..

WATERMELON: Coolest
Thirst Quencher Composed of 92% water,
it is also packed with a giant dose of Glutathione,
which helps boost our immune system.
They are also a key source of Lycopene - the cancer fighting oxidant.
Other nutrients found in watermelon are Vitamin C &
Potassium.

GUAVA & PAPAYA: Top awards for Vitamin C.
They are the clear winners for their high Vitamin C content. Guava is Also rich in fiber, which helps prevent constipation. Papaya is rich in carotene; this is good for your eyes.

Drinking Cold water after meal = Cancer!
Can u believe this??

For those who like to drink cold water, this article is applicable to you. It is nice to have a cup of cold drink after a meal. However, the cold water will solidify the oily stuff that you have just consumed. It will slow down the digestion.

Once this 'sludge' reacts with the acid, it will break down and be Absorbed by the intestine faster than the solid food. It will line the intestine.

Very soon, this will turn into fats and lead to cancer.
It is best to Drink hot soup or warm water after a meal.

A serious note about heart attacks

HEART ATTACK PROCEDURE': (THIS IS NOT A JOKE!)

Women should know that not every heart attack symptom is going to be the left arm hurting. Be aware of intense pain in the jaw line.

You may never have the first chest pain during the course of a heart attack.

Nausea and intense sweating are also common symptoms.
60% of people who have a heart attack while they are asleep do not wake up.

Pain in the jaw can wake you from a sound sleep. Let's be careful and be aware. The more we know, the better chance we could survive...

A cardiologist says if everyone who gets this mail sends it to
10 people, you can be sure that we'll save at least one life. Read
this..
It could save your life!!

Let's say it's 6:15 pm and you're driving home.
Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to radiate out into your arm and up into your jaw. You are only about five miles from the hospital nearest your home.

Unfortunately you don't know if you'll be able to make it
that far. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy that taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.

'HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE':

Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack, without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness.

However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should be taken before each cough, deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest..

A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again.

Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze The heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm.

In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital.
Tell as many Other people as possible about this.

It could save their lives!!

KWI ingatkan pilpres agar jaga NKRI

Vescovi indonesiani: Votate un presidente garante di “pluralismo e contro la Shariah”
di Mathias Hariyadi
I prelati smentiscono la notizia, circolata fra i media, per cui sarebbero favorevoli all’astensionismo e invitano a scegliere “secondo coscienza”. Essi denunciano il pericolo di un uso politico dei simboli religiosi per conquistare maggiori consensi.

Jakarta (AsiaNews) – In vista delle presidenziali dell’8 luglio, i vescovi indonesiani invitano i fedeli a “votare secondo coscienza scegliendo il miglior candidato possibile” e smentiscono false notizie, circolate nei media del Paese, secondo cui essi sarebbero favorevoli “all’astensionismo”. Al contrario, i prelati auspicano che la tornata elettorale rafforzi i valori del “pluralismo e dell’unità nazionale” e confermi la supremazia della “legge dello Stato” rispetto ai tentativi di introdurre norme basate sulla Shariah, la legge islamica.

La polemica è divampata all’inizio della scorsa settimana: i giornali indonesiani hanno diffuso la notizia secondo cui la Commissione episcopale per il laicato ha “esortato i cattolici indonesiani all’astensionismo”. Padre YR Eddy Purwanto, segretario della Commissione, chiarisce che i vescovi invitano i fedeli a “usare la loro testa e il loro cuore per eleggere il miglior candidato presidenziale”. E la scelta del non-voto va fatta “in base alla coscienza morale” di ciascun individuo.

Per la corsa alla carica di presidente sono in lizza tre candidati: l’attuale capo di Stato Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono del Democrat Party, che ha scelto come vice il governatore della Banca centrale indonesiana Boediono. Jusuf Kalla è il candidato del Golkar, il cui vice in caso di vittoria sarà l’ex generale Wiranto. Un altro generale di corpo d’armata, Prabowo Subianto, corre anch’egli per la vice-presidenza con l’Indonesian Democratic Party – Struggle, il cui leader è l’ex Capo di Stato Megawati Setiawati Soekarnoputri, già presidente dal 2001 al 2004.

La Conferenza episcopale indonesiana (Kwi) chiede di “scegliere il meglio per il bene del Paese”. Mons. Martin Situmorang, presidente dei vescovi, spiega che una delle priorità è “mantenere lo spirito di pluralismo e unità nazionale” all’insegna dei valori sanciti dai padri fondatori dell’Indonesia che invitano “all’unità nella diversità”. Secondo i vescovi questa diversità – fonte di ricchezza per il Paese – oggi è “in serio pericolo”; i prelati ricordano anche i casi di “corruzione che hanno interessato tutti e tre i candidati” in lizza per le presidenziali.

Come anticipato da AsiaNews nelle scorse settimane, vi è il concreto pericolo di un uso dei simboli religiosi per finalità politiche; esso mette a rischio l’unità nazionale e il pluralismo, due valori che rappresentano “una ricchezza nazionale”. “Ci opponiamo nella maniera più assoluta – affermano i vescovi – a qualsiasi tipo di strumentalizzazione della religione per instillare dissapori fra i fedeli delle varie confessioni”. L’introduzione, a livello locale, di leggi basate sulla Shariah porta infatti a divisioni confessionali e persecuzioni verso le minoranze.

Surat cinta Mbak Sum ...lucu tenan

SURAT CINTA MBAK SUM

mBak Sum; bermaksud memutuskan hubungan dengan kekasihnya bernama Roberto, seorang bule dari Amerika,

Akan tetapi dia tak sanggup untuk bertemu muka dengan kekasihnya.

mBak Sum menulis surat dengan berbekal pengetahuan bahasa Inggris & kamus tebal.

Isi suratnya sbb :

Hi Rob, with this letter I want to give know you
(hai Robbie, bersama surat ini saya ingin memberitahu kamu)

I WANT TO CUT CONNECTION US
(SAYA INGIN MEMUTUSKAN HUBUNGAN KITA)

I have think this very cook cook
(saya telah memikirkan hal ini masak masak)

I know my love only clap half hand
(saya tahu cinta saya hanya bertepuk sebelah tangan)

Correctly, I have see you go with a woman entertainment at town with my eyes and head myself
(sebenarnya, saya telah melihat kamu pergi bersama seorang wanita penghibur dI kota dengan mata kepala saya sendiri)

You always ask apology back back times
(kamu selalu minta maaf berulang ulang kali)

You eyes drop tears crocodile
(matamu mencucurkan airmata buaya)

You correct correct a man crocodile land
(kamu benar-benar seorang lelaki buaya darat)

My Friend speak you play fire
(teman saya bilang kamu bermain api)

Now I know you correct correct play fire
(sekarang saya tahu kamu benar benar bermain api)

So, I break connection and pull body from love triangle this
(jadi, saya putuskan hubungan dan menarik diri dari cinta segitiga ini)

I know result I pick this very correct, because you love she very big from me
(saya tahu keputusan yang saya ambil ini benar, karena kamu mencintai dia lebih besar dari saya)

But I still will not go far far from here
(namun saya tetap tidak akan pergi jauh-jauh dari sini)

I don't want you play play with my liver
(saya tidak ingin kamu main-main dengan hati saya)

I have been crying night night until no more eye water thinking about
your body
(saya menangis bermalam-malam sampai tidak ada lagi airmata
memikirkan dirimu)

I don't want to sick my liver for two times
(saya tidak mau sakit hati untuk kedua kalinya)

Safe walk, Robbie
(selamat jalan, Robbie)

Girl friend of your liver
(kekasih hatimu)

Note:
this river I forgive you, next river I kill you !
(kali ini aku maafkan kamu, kali lain kubunuh kau !)

Terbukti kalo bahasa inggris itu "Mudah & Menyenangkan"

Kekuatan tiga kata

isah seorang Office Boy (Tolong - Maaf - Terima Kasih)

Dikisahkan, di sebuah pesta perpisahan sederhana pengunduran diri seorang direktur. Diadakan sebuah sesi acara penyampaian pesan, kesan, dan kritikan dari anak buah kepada mantan atasannya yang segera memasuki masa pensiun dari perusahaan tersebut.

Karena waktu yang terbatas, kesempatan tersebut dipersilahkan dinyatakan dalam bentuk tulisan.

Diantara pujian dan kesan yang diberikan, dipilih dan dibingkai untuk diabadikan kemudian dibacakan di acara tersebut, yakni sebuah catatan dengan gaya tulisan coretan dari seorang office boy yang telah bekerja cukup lama di perusahaan itu.

Dia menulis semuanya dengan huruf kapital sebagai berikut, "Yang terhormat Pak Direktur"... ... Terima kasih karena Bapak telah mengucapkan kata "tolong", setiap kali Bapak memberi tugas yang sebenarnya adalah tanggung jawab saya. Terima kasih Pak Direktur karena Bapak telah mengucapkan "maaf", saat Bapak menegur, mengingatkan dan berusaha
memberitahu setiap kesalahan yang telah diperbuat karena Bapak ingin saya merubahnya menjadi kebaikan. Terima kasih Pak Direktur karena Bapak selalu mengucapkan "terima kasih" kepada saya atas hal-hal kecil yang telah saya kerjakan untuk Bapak.Terima kasih Pak Direktur atas semua penghargaan kepada orang kecil seperti saya sehingga saya bisa tetap bekerja dengan sebaik-baiknya, dengan kepala tegak, tanpa merasa direndahkan dan dikecilkan.
Dan sampai kapan pun bapak adalah tetap Pak Direktur buat saya.

Terima kasih sekali lagi. Semoga Tuhan meridhoi jalan dimanapun Pak Direktur berada. Amin........ ......

Setelah sejenak keheningan menyelimuti ruangan itu, serentak tepuk tangan menggema memenuhi ruangan. Diam-diam Pak Direktur mengusap genangan airmata di sudut mata tuanya, terharu mendengar ungkapan hati seorang office boy yang selama ini dengan setia melayani kebutuhan seluruh isi kantor.

Pak Direktur tidak pernah menyangka sama sekali bahwa sikap dan ucapan yang selama ini dilakukan, yang menurutnya begitu sederhana dan biasa-biasa saja, ternyata mampu memberi arti bagi orang kecil seperti si office boy tersebut. Terpilihnya tulisan itu untuk diabadikan, karena seluruh isi kantor itu setuju dan sepakat bahwa keteladanan dan kepemimpinan Pak Direktur akan mereka teruskan sebagai budaya di perusahaan itu.

Pembaca Yang Budiman,
Tiga kata "terimakasih, maaf, dan tolong" adalah kalimat pendek yang sangat sederhana tetapi mempunyai dampak yang positif. Namun mengapa kata-kata itu kadang sangat sulit kita ucapkan? Sebenarnya secara tidak langsung telah menunjukkan keberadaban dan kebesaran jiwa sosok manusia yang mengucapkannya. Apalagi diucapkan oleh seorang pemimpin kepada bawahannya.

Pemimpin bukan sekedar memerintah dan mengawasi, tetapi lebih pada sikap keteladanan lewat cara berpikir, ucapan, dan tindakan yang mampu membimbing, membina, dan mengembangkan yang dipimpinnya sehingga tercipta sinergi dalam mencapai tujuan bersama.

Tentu bagi siapapun kita perlu membiasakan mengucapkan kata-kata pendek seperti terima kasih, maaf, dan tolong dimana pun, kapan pun, dan dengan siapa pun kita berhubungan. Dengan mampu menghargai orang lain minimal kita telah menghargai diri kita sendiri.

Mudah-mudah- an 3 (tiga) suku kata " Maaf, Tolong dan Terimakasih " bisa bermanfaat dan berguna bagi kita semua.